
Pastoral Care Booklet
For our parishioners . . .
We would like to share with you
some of the resources available to you and others in our parish faith community . . . Peace!
Queen of All Saints Parish
2005-2006
6603 Christopher Dr.
846-8207, ext. 207
Dear Parishioner,
We bring you a prayerful greeting from the Queen of all Saints Pastoral Care Ministry. Perhaps you are not aware of the existence of this group; we want to let you know that we are here for you.
Our purpose is to lend spiritual, physical, and emotional support to those in the parish who may be experiencing any kind of suffering, grief, or loss, by doing what we can to help our people.
Suffering and grief tend to make us feel alone. You do not have to be alone. Please know that there are parishioners (perhaps having experienced similar circumstances) who are ready and willing to share the burden you may feel. We Do Care! You are an important part of our parish family and are loved sincerely in Christ.
If we can be of help, please contact one of us and let us share with you -- even if it is only someone with whom to talk. A burden shared is only half as heavy.
We are enclosing a list of resources that are available and may be of help to you in your particular need. Perhaps you may find something there that sounds helpful.
Yours in the Caring Heart of Jesus,
The Pastoral Care Ministry Team
Mission
As members of Pastoral Care Ministry, we strive to be instruments of God's love and compassion to the people of Queen of All Saints Community. Our goal is to lend spiritual, physical, and emotional support to those experiencing any kind of suffering, loss, or life transition and to provide on-going training of Pastoral Care Ministers.
Objectives
à Educational
-Pastoral Care Ministry Training:
Gifts and talents; Stages of death and dying; Ability to let go of control; Dynamics of grief; Listening/Communication skills; Prayer and ministry; Various types of grief
-Health Education:
Health screenings; Health Fair; Educational speakers; Individual counseling
à Spiritual
Prayer experience; Prayer line; Ministering to needs; Anointing liturgy; Memorial liturgy; Liturgical planning for funerals; Eucharist-at-Home
à Corporal
Parish Nurse Program (mission is to carry out the healing mission of Jesus by promoting the health and wellness of body, mind, and spirit through counsel, education, prayer, resource, referral, screenings, health fairs, helping to coordinate committees within Pastoral Care); Cancer Support Group; Ministry to the Disabled; Grief Letters; Home Meals; Elizabeth Ministry/Mom-2-Mom Ministry; Get Well Cards; Home Visits; Nursing Home Visits; Hospice; Hospital Visits; Yoga; Growing Through Grief Ministry; Parish Nurse Program; Joseph and Martha Ministry; Beginning Again Divorced Support Group (Divorce Care, Steps to Wholeness); Cope With Hope Group; Children and Grief Ministry; Bereavement/Anniversary Cards; Funeral Luncheons, Funeral Planning; Funeral Attendance Phone Chain; Transportation; Resource Library
Pastoral Care
Ministry
Mission and Objectives
Pastoral Care
Ministry
Barb Dowling, RN
Parish Nurse
Anointing Mass
Sr. Leonette Juengst…………………………..846-8207 ext. 207
Twice per year during a weekend Mass, this sacrament is offered to anyone wishing these special blessings.
Beginning Again—South County Catholic
Divorce Ministry
Sr. Leonette Juengst…………………………...846-8207 ext.206
Libby Long.................................................................... 894-1373
A collaborative effort of several South County parishes: Assumption; Mary, Mother of the Church; Queen of All Saints; St. Catherine Labouré; St. Francis of Assisi; St. Margaret Mary; St. Mark’s; St. Simon. This program offers support for those experiencing the changes and transitions of divorce.
à Divorce Care
Jean Stortzum…………………………………….704-1870
Divorce Care is a program designed to equip churches to conduct ongoing ministry to separated and divorced people. The Divorce Care program takes a biblical approach to divorce, separation, and related issues such as reconciliation, remarriage, forgiveness, and the effect of divorce on children and families. Divorce Care emphasizes that real healing from the intense pain of divorce must begin with a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Each Divorce Care meeting consists of two parts: a videotape “seminar” followed by support group discussion.
à Steps to Wholeness
Jean Stortzum…………………………………….704-1870
A seven session workshop offered for those dealing with the new experience of the loss of a marriage . . . suffering from brokenness, alienation, and confusion.
Bereavement Anniversary Cards
Pat Arconati...................................................................... 846-4892
Sympathy cards are sent on the year anniversary to those who have lost a spouse or family member through death.
Bereavement Cards
Audrey Fuchs................................................................ 846-8410
Sympathy cards are sent to those who have lost a spouse or family member through death.
Cancer Support Group
Barb Dowling................................................. 846-8207 ext. 207
A support group for those who have cancer, or those whose loved ones have cancer. This group is offered when there is an adequate number of interested participants.
Children and Grief Ministry
Barb Dowling................................................. 846-8207 ext. 207
Program designed for children who have suffered a loss of any kind.
Cope With Hope
Peggy Kalinowski......................................................... 846-4677
An active group ministry that provides a safe environment for mutual support. Information is available to those experiencing the effects of a chronic condition or chronic pain. This includes both the person suffering and those in his/her life affected by his/her condition.
Mom-2-Mom Ministry
Kate Lewandowski....................................................... 293-1281
This group provides encouragement, companionship, and spiritual support to expectant mothers from pregnancy through birth.
Eucharist-At-Home
Claire Schoen............................................................... 846-8558
Eucharistic Ministers will bring Communion to those in the home or nursing home unable to get to church.
Funeral Attendance Phone Chain
Linda Winkler................................................................ 846-2775
Phone chain to parishioners who are willing to attend funeral
liturgies.
Funeral Luncheon
Pietrina Dorsey............................................................. 846-5014
Volunteers provide a meal, both food and service, in the Church Hall, after the funeral liturgy.
Funeral Planning
Provides assistance to those needing to plan a wake service and/or funeral liturgy at the time of death or prior to an anticipated death.
Betty Bast................. 846-6917 Peggy Kalinowski 846-4677
Barb Dowling.. 846-8207 x207 Ginny Kurt........... 846-5594
Ruth Hagemann....... 846-9922 Nancy Schillinger 846-8220
Nancy Jersa............. 846-2509 Sheila Treptow... 846-4015
Sr. Leonette Juengst 846-8207 x206.................. Mary Trueman.. 846-5131
Get Well Cards
Linda Winkler................................................................ 846-2775
Sends “Get Well” and “Thinking of You” cards to those parishioners hospitalized or ill. List is compiled by the Parish Nurse.
Grief Letters
Kathy Schmidt............................................................... 846-4361
Cathy Murphy................................................................ 846-0154
Timed grief letters and “Care Notes” are mailed to families who have lost a loved one through death.
Growing Through Grief Support Group
Dick Blowers................................................................. 846-8468
Sr. Leonette Juengst..................................... 846-8207 ext. 206
Support for those who have experienced the death of a loved one. Eight week session offered once per year.
Health Education; Health Screenings; Health Fair
Barb Dowling................................................. 846-8207 ext. 207
Personal health education, speakers, various screenings, and health fairs are offered by the Parish Nurse.
Home Meals
Dick Blowers................................................................. 846-8468
A group of volunteers provides prepared meals to those unable to prepare their own due to illness, hospitalization, or grief.
Home Visits
Pastoral Care Ministers................................ 846-8207 ext. 207
Ministry provided to assess needs, refer, or provide for the spiritual, emotional, or physical needs of parishioners.
Hospice
Barb Dowling................................................. 846-8207 ext. 207
Hospice Care in the form of physical, emotional, or spiritual support is offered by Pastoral Care Ministers trained in hospice.
Hospital Visitation
Betty Bast/Lay Ministers.............................................. 846-6917
Ministry provides for spiritual, sacramental, or emotional needs of those hospitalized. Call received through the Parish Nurse or
parish office will be directed to coordinator and appropriate staff.
Joseph and Martha Ministry
Barb Dowling................................................. 846-8207 ext. 207
This ministry is designed to match people in QAS parish who need assistance with those who are able to provide services. This ministry serves not only single parents, but also those who are chronically ill, elderly, etc. Services can include, but are not limited to: simple household repairs, appliance repairs, electrical, mending, meal preparation, grocery shopping, transportation.
Memorial Mass
Betty Bast...................................................................... 846-6917
This special Mass is offered in the Fall for those who have experienced the death of a loved one. A reception follows the Mass.
Social Midlife Connection
Theresa Gibbar............................................................ 846-2698
Cathy Murphy................................................................ 846-0154
Kathy Schmidt............................................................... 846-4361
Barb Dowling.................................................. 846-8207 ext 207
Vicki Gallagher............................................................. 846-6547
This ministry addresses the social, spiritual, psychosocial, and emotional needs of midlife parishioners.
Ministry to the Disabled
Barb Dowling................................................. 846-8207 ext. 207
Offers help as needed for those who are disabled.
Nursing Home Visits
Barb Dowling................................................. 846-8207 ext. 207
Nursing home visits are provided by members of Pastoral Care.
Parish Nurse Program
Barb Dowling................................................. 846-8207 ext. 207
The Parish Nurse promotes wellness, optimal health, and healing using a holistic approach. She offers counseling, resources, referrals, spiritual support, education, and advocacy.
Pastoral Care Training
Sr. Leonette Juengst..................................... 846-8207 ext. 206
Extensive training is given for those becoming Pastoral Care Ministers, and on-going training is given for current ministers.
Prayer Line
Bud & Helen Erlinger................................................... 846-8384
A small group of lay ministers who will pray for the needs of those who contact them. Prayer ministers are notified through a phone chain.
Resource Library
Peggy Kalinowski......................................................... 846-4677
Books, videos, pamphlets, and medical supplies are available to parishioners on an "as-needed" basis.
Transportation
Pat Keller....................................................................... 846-4937
Volunteers provide rides for the parishioners as needed. Example: to the doctor, hospital, grocery store, bank, etc.
Yoga
Barb Dowling.................................................. 846-8207 ext.207
Yoga is offered starting in September for eight-week sessions. The classes are on Tuesday evenings in the school library from 7 - 8:15 p.m.
Pat Anderson 6533 Towne Woods Drive 846-8487
Judy Appel-Fahy 6023 Gatling Drive 846-8386
Pat Arconati 7263 Spring Water Court 846-4892
Betty Bast 2532 Christopher Lake Ct. 846-6917
Dick Blowers 3 Christopher Bluffs Court 846-8468
Barb Dowling 128 Staehle Court 846-2986
Mary Ealum 7014 Christopher Drive 846-8132
Shelia Dettmann 6800 Graystone 846-4809
Audrey Fuchs 400 Bluff Crest Court 846-8410
Vicki Gallagher 135 Tori Pines Drive 846-6547
Ruth Hagemann 2712 Denacre Drive 846-9922
Tom Hoy 3045 Summerfield Manor 846-8469
Nancy Jersa 7316 Christopher Drive 846-2509
Sr. Leonette Juengst 4708 Mattis Road (63128) 894-7357
Peggy Kalinowski 2658 Brickmore Court 846-4677
Jerry Kurt 7311 Stream Valley Court 846-5594
Cathy Murphy 2922 Emerald Bend Court 846-0154
EvaJean Morris 6300 Highland Estates Dr. 846-5716
Pat Knobbe 2540 Cripple Creek 846-7172
Dorothy Nadolny 2603 Black Forest Drive 846-2365
Judy Peckham 6928 Shady Lawn Drive 846-0553
Nancy Schillinger 1 Christopher Bluffs Court 846-8220
Kathy Schmidt 2638 Cripple Creek Drive 846-4361
Rick Schmidt 2638 Cripple Creek Drive 846-8361
Sheila Treptow 132 Staehle Court 846-4015
Mary Trueman 3029 Olde Post Rd. 846-5131
Linda Winkler 2616 Circlewood Trail 846-2775
Pastoral Care
Ministry
Team members
Pastoral Care
Ministry
Resource list
Aids Information Hotline...................... 1-800-342-2437
St. Louis Contact.......................................................... 471-1186
Al-Anon/Al-Alteen Hotline.................. 1-800-356-9996
Alcoholic’s Anonymous................................... 647-3677
Alliance for Mentally Ill............................... 966-4670
Monthly person-to-person support groups. Referral and assistance
with obtaining services. Family oriented. No fee.
Alzheimer’s Association.................................. 432-3422
Breast Cancer Support Group.................. 525-1288
Meets at St. Anthony's Hospital on the 4th Thursday of every month, from 7 - 9 p.m. Meetings are held in the 8th Floor A and B conference rooms. For more information call Cindy Sair.
Bereaved Parents USA.................................... 878-0890
Formerly called Compassionate Friends, a self-help organization offering friendship and understanding to bereaved parents. Meeting times and places vary.
Candlelighters
Parents' Support Group for parents whose children have or have had cancer. Write them at: Childhood Cancer Foundation, 3035 Eye Street, NW, Suite 1011, Washington, DC, 20006.
Catholic Family Counseling.......................... 792-7030
Professional individual, family, and marital counseling services to anyone within the Archdiocese of St. Louis regardless of race, religion, or national origin. Fee based on sliding scale. 7800 Kenrick Road,
St. Louis, MO, 63119.
Child Abuse and Neglect Hotline... 1-800-367-2543
County Health Information............................ 854-6600
Depressive and Manic Depressive Association 776-3969
Self Help and family support groups for depressives and manic depressives.
Drug Abuse Hotline............................................ 645-9147
Drug Hotline (St. Louis)..................................... 621-4333
First Candle/SIDS Alliance ................ 1-800-221-SIDS
http://firstcandle.org
H.E.L.P.S.- Helping Elderly Live Privately & Safely 913-4142
Offers creative solutions to seniors who need assistance but want to remain in their home.
Kids in the Middle, Inc.
Carol McMahan.............................................................. 909-9922
Counseling for children of divorce, separation, and remarriage. located at 8129 Delmar, St. Louis, MO, 63130. Monday through Friday;
9 a.m. to 5 p.m.
Learning Consultants, Inc............................. 863-0232
Evaluation, therapy, testing, and tutoring.
Life Crisis.................................................................. 647-4357
Primarily a suicide hotline, but also helps people in any crisis situation.
MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving)... 426-1595
http://www.madd.org/home
Missouri Child Care Resource and
Referral Network ................................. 1-800-200-9017
Network of child care resources and referral for all of Missouri. Provides information and education in all areas relating to child care.
Missouri School Violence Hotline 1-866-748-7047
Hotline for students, teachers, or schools to report violence.
Parental Stress Helpline.................. 1-800-367-2543
Gives resource numbers for help in your area.
Parentlink.......................................................... 1-800-552-8522
St. Louis Resource Center
Contact Lori.................................................................. 822-2323
St. Anthony’s Hospital...................................... 525-1000
St. Louis Society of the Blind
and Visually Impaired........................................ 968-9000
Rehabilitation services in the home, support groups for the visually
impaired. Located at 8770 Manchester Road, St. Louis, MO, 63144.
Senior Services Hotline....................... 1-800-392-0210
For elderly abuse, neglect, or exploitation in the community or nursing facility.
Share.......................................................................... 768-8349
Comfort and support for parents who experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, or loss of a newborn. Contact the Hospice Department.
South County Health Center....................... 842-1300
Stroke Club, St. Anthony's Hospital
Contact Kim.................................................................. 525-4542
Survivors Network of those Abused by Priest -
(S.N.A.P)....................................................................... 862-7688
Local Director: Barbara Dorris
Local Web Site: http://www.snapmidwest.org
Survivors of Suicide
Life Crisis Contact: Nancy........................................... 647-3100
Hotline:........................................................................... 647-4357
Support Group for those who have lost a loved one by suicide.
Victims of Crime................................................... 652-3623
Referral and resources of Mental Health Agencies for sexual abuse victims and their families. Information on the criminal justice system, community education opportunities, and trauma awareness.
Webster Groves Counseling....................... 963-9600
“Family Center" therapy - Parents of Teenagers group, Motherless Daughters, Self esteem for teens group. Contact Madeleine Lane, SSND, MA, 337 West Lockwood, 63119.
Widowed Persons Service of St. Louis .. 995-1977
A community advocate for the widowed providing a twenty-four hour answering service for referral information and assistance (employment, financial, legal affairs, housing, meals, etc.) One on one contact with trained volunteers is also available. No group meetings. Located at
4580 S. Lindbergh, 63127.
Youth In Need.................................................. 636-946-0101
An emergency shelter for 6 males and 6 females (ages 10-18); out-client counseling for adolescents and their families, transitional living program for youth (ages 6-12); outreach program and teen/parent program. Call the Emergency Shelter at 636-946-3771.
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Pastoral Care Ministry * Queen of All Saints
6603 Christopher Drive * St. Louis, MO 63129
(314) 846-8207 ext. 207